#ENNEGRAM TYPE 3 PROFESSIONAL#

They need the time and space to process their emotions, so don't try to pull anything out of them. If you happen to be the partner of an Observer, also known as 'The Thinkers,' remember that if they seem aloof, they are most likely uncomfortable. It takes a LOT of effort for them to put their thoughts into words in the first place. They also need someone who is a good listener, as they get irritated with having to repeat themselves. Observers need a partner who won't try to force them to go out to places they hate: crowded parties, loud environments or basically anything requiring a lot of social interaction.

#ENNEGRAM TYPE 3 PROFESSIONAL#

It takes them a lot of time to put their thoughts and ideas out into the world, and it can be difficult for them to watch socially skilled people advance faster in the professional sphere. Observers are skilled analytical thinkers with an above-average thirst for knowledge and an introverted disposition. Oh, and MOST importantly, you'll want to be with someone who will resist the urge to tell you you're overreacting or being dramatic, unless it's absolutely necessary. You also need someone who will shower you with compliments, which are your life blood and your fuel.ДЄ partner who respects your intuition and takes your advice into consideration when you say you have a 'bad feeling' about something is the one for you.

You'll benefit by being with someone who doesn't 'go there' with you. They're able to find meaning in even the most difficult of life's challenges, and they tend to be creative thinkers with a tendency toward melancholy.ДЄs a Romantic, you need a partner who is lighthearted enough to avoid the pitfalls of your depressive moods, since you don't always want to come out of them. Romantics have sensitive feelings and are gifted with good intuition. Ultimately, you need someone who is just as focused on their own success. You constantly are worried about not achieving the kind of success you'd like to achieve in the world, and you need someone who can tell you how proud they are of your accomplishments. They're not the easiest people to be with. You need a partner who is independent enough to leave you alone while you focus on your work and who has a peaceful disposition.ДЄnyone who burdens you with emotional drama is going to get the boot very quickly.ДЄlbert Einstein's wife used to leave his dinner outside of his room so that she wouldn't disturb him in the middle of his work.Д®ventually, the marriage dissipated because he felt it interrupted his studies, which basically describes the extreme version of the Achiever. They are energetic, goal-oriented and self-assured.

#3: The AchieverДЄchievers are real work horses. So, having a partner who is proud to be seen with you and reassures you of that will do wonders for you. Helpers are nurturing, concerned with the wellbeing of others and sensitive to people's needs, making them extremely supportive romantic partners.ДЄs a Helper type, you tend to focus more on others than you do on yourself, and romantically, you need someone who can remind you that YOU matter, too.ДЄs someone who feels insecure about other people not listening to you as much as you might listen to them, you also need someone who will reassure you that you're interesting.ДЄ downside to being a helper is suffering from low self-esteem. The beneficial side of being in a partnership with a perfectionist is, they are more willing to forgive than their name would suggest.ДЄlthough, they won't do so without a good heartfelt and well-structured apology.

You don't want to end up doing it all yourself, and you wouldn't allow that sort of unhealthy dynamic to exist in any of your relationships.

You're most likely to be attracted to someone who values your good advice and who takes on their share of the work in the relationship. You need this reassurance like you need food or water simply because you're so hard on yourself. In love, you require a lot of reassurance that you are appreciated just for being yourself. Here's an outline of all the Enneagram personality types and the kind of partner your primary type needs in a relationship: #1: The PerfectionistД«eing a perfectionist is difficult mostly because as a perfectionist, you make it so. Once you've taken the Enneagram test, a whole world of information opens up to you, including the ways in which you work, communicate and even fall in love. It's kind of relaxing to see your whole personality wrapped up in one simple word (or maybe I'm just being 'The Perfectionist' about this), but the cool thing about the Enneagram personality test is, it's a model of interconnected personality types, meaning there's a little of each of them in all of us.

Ennegram type 3